Tuesday, January 1, 2013
Happy New Year!
I have been reading people's new year's resolutions. I don't really do the whole resolutions thing because most of the time life gets busy and they get pushed aside, if not forgotten completely. At least in my world. The new year does make me think about my life, though. And I have been doing a lot of thinking. So instead of making resolutions for a new year I want to just share some of things I want.
First, I want to look in the mirror and be happy with what I see. So many times the mirror and I just do not get along. It seems cruel and hateful--truth is, it is MY reflection and it is MY mind that is cruel and hateful, not the poor mirror's. I am my own worst critic and so often I look in the mirror and hate what I see. I want to start looking in the mirror and being happy with the image staring back at me. I told my best friend, Denisa, one day that I am ugly and needed to lose weight and let my hair grow out--more hair, less weight. The truth is. I like my hair short. Some days I don't like how I look with short hair but it's so easy to fix. And one of my best friends, Brittani, tells me EVERY SINGLE TIME she sees me that she LOVES my hair. So, I think I've decided to keep it short. To embrace it for the cool haircut it is and stop feeling like such an ugly person all the time! I'm no Anne Hathaway but as far as I can tell, people aren't screaming and running from me as I walk towards them. ;)
Secondly, I want to accept myself for who I am. The world bombards us with images and ideas of who we should be, what we should wear, what we should like/enjoy. In 2013 I will be 35 years old. Wow. It's time to embrace who I am and enjoy what I enjoy. I'm a book nerd who enjoys writing. I love coffee and all things vintage. I enjoy old movies, art, literature, and cooking. I am not a super model. I am not a famous person. I am a not a brilliant writer. Jacob and I always say, "It is what it is." Well, in this respect, I am who I am. Take me or leave me, but don't try to change me. ;)
Thirdly, I do want to get back into the habit of kickboxing. Jacob got me the cool pink gloves for the punching bag and it is one of the things I enjoy doing. Since I had Kaitlyn finding the time to actually go out to the garage and do kick boxing seems harder, but I want to try and MAKE time for that. It is one thing I miss. I love having the music blasting and punching and kicking the punching bag. It's great for stress and everything else life throws at you. It's also great exercise and, let's face it, I'm not getting any younger.
Finally, I want to be the best mom to my three gremlins that I could possibly be. I love spending time with them and just being near their energetic, imaginative, big heart-ed world. They make me smile each and every day and I want them to know that their mother loves them more than life itself. Each year as I get older, they get older too. I want to cherish every moment I can with them and be sure they know they are loved far more than they could ever imagine.
2013 is here. What kind of year will YOU make it? I wish all of my wonderful friends and family a fabulous year filled with love, laughter, and happiness!