Monday, April 8, 2013
A Scene of Bullies
As we were walking out to the van this morning I heard laughter followed by some foul language. I stopped. My boys stopped. We all turned and looked across the street. Several teenagers were taunting another teen. She was wearing a long skirt, a hoody, and Converse tennis shoes. She had her hoody pulled up over her head, as if she wanted to hide--watching this all take place, I could see why. A boy slapped her books out of her hands and the group continued laughing and taunting her. She just stood there. It was like watching a play; a scene of bullies, except it wasn't a play, it was reality. The group eventually walked away, still shouting hateful things to the girl. My eyes darted from the scene playing in front of us to my boys. Both boys were watching--taking it all in.
I watched Logan's face twist into a sad expression and he said, "Mom? Is she crying?" I looked at the girl and she did, in fact, seem to be crying. She bent down and picked up her books from the grass they were now resting on. She took two steps in the direction of the group who had picked on her. Then she stopped.
Again there was a little voice, "What is she doing?"
She turned around and took off running in the opposite direction. My boys watched her run until she was out of site. Alex looked at me and held my gaze. He said, "Is that how teenagers are?" I said, "Some." Logan said, "That makes me feel sad." Alex said, "Yeah, she didn't do anything and they were mean." I said, "Well, remember this day if you ever feel the urge to be mean to some one, okay?" Alex said, "Okay. I would never want to make anyone feel bad." He opened the van door, tossed his back pack inside, and climbed in.
I put Kaitlyn in her car seat and buckled her in. I turned around to find Logan still standing there, staring at the place where the teenagers had been. I said, "Logan! Come on, bubby, I need to get you to school." He turned and started walking toward the van. I could tell he was bothered by what he had seen. He said, "Do you think that girl will be okay?" I said, "I hope so." He said, "When I'm a teenager I'm not going to be mean to people. I want everyone to be happy and be nice." I said, "I know. The world could learn a lot from you." He looked up at me and said, "The world needs more people who say good things and less people who say mean things." He paused and then he said something that really made me think.
"Maybe some one today will say one nice thing to her. I bet she'd like that."
He climbed in the van and closed the door.
Take a child's advice and say one nice thing to some one today. You never know, it could make all the difference!