Tuesday, November 20, 2012
A Day Of Thanks
Every year on the Wednesday before Thanksgiving we have our own little Thanksgiving feast here--just us--before we load up the van and travel the next day to spend Thanksgiving with our families. Jacob and the boys really enjoy it and this will be Kaitlyn's first year to eat thanksgiving foods. We have turkey, of course, and I make homemade cornbread dressing and homemade mashed potatoes and gravy. We always have green bean casserole at other gatherings so I make Sautee'd Brussels Sprouts instead. We have a relish tray for a certain 6-year-old boy who loves pickles, black olives, and cranberry sauce. We also have dinner rolls. For dessert we have--every year--pumpkin and pecan pie with Cool Whip. It is a lot of work but my family loves it and that is all that matters to me. It is a chance for us all to be together to celebrate something special and be thankful for each other, the food we are eating, and everything that we have and everyone in our lives. It is important to me to be thankful for all I have but to also teach my children to be thankful. Each night before bed they pray and thank God for one thing. It is so cute. One day Logan was telling me about a kid at school who had holes in his shoes but his parents wouldn't buy him new shoes. I said, "Maybe they can't afford to by new shoes for him right now." That night Logan thanked God for shoes that don't have holes in them and it really touched my heart.
This past year started with our eldest having surgery. Kaitlyn was hospitalized this year and a lot has happened. We are thankful for so much this year! I am especially thankful for our families and for my closest friends and my very best friend for reminding me (again) today that instead of focusing on the stress factor of traveling for holidays with small children I need to be thankful I have a family to travel home to. I need to be thankful for that time with them. Wise words from a wonderful friend!
Happy Thanksgiving, world! May we all take a minute to focus on all our many blessings.